Tips for Traveling in India

We've learned a few things we're inclined to pass along.

- Fuel: Make sure the vehicle in which you are riding has enough
- Exercise: Be ready for impromptu opportunities to do things such as push an SUV through the worlds's worst traffic over monsoon soaked roadways and through ankle deep (or worse) potholes
- Do EVERYTHING without complaining. The natives do, why can't we?
- Be flexible. Consider that your daily schedule may change once, twice, three times or more.
- Maintain your temper about mosquitoes. I suppose they're as hungry as everyone else.
- Bring protein bars. Western man cannot live on rice, chippati (wheat tortilla), dahl (lentil soup), and chicken alone...even if it really is delectable every time.
- Trust that there is ample bottled water, and drink it like you are being paid to
- Don't offer your hand to women unless they offer theirs to you
- Eat only w/ your right hand (see Jill's American Flag Story)
- Be prepared to be treated like gods...that's they way the Indians are raised to treat guests. This means that the lady of the house won't eat until you've had your fill, and men and women everywhere will run to open doors, carry briefcases, etc.
- watch "City of Joy" if you plan to come during monsoons. I just got out of the shower after being drenched and mid-calf deep running to the car (Jill and Aila also). In truth, we would have been disappointed if we'd not been soaked at least once!

Today was another awesome gathering with friends anxious to hear what we've learned about forming and protecting pleasurable (joyful), healthy and lasting relationships in marriage, family and with colleagues. Loving listening is the big revelation that makes every smile and fills them with hope for more and better in each of their relationships.

Off for a dinner meeting w/ more friends! A few more days and we're home. Anxious for some Western food and to see family and friends!

Love, Us